Many things should be noted when moving towards interracial relationships. We live in a society where interracial relationships and marriages are still questioned and still not widely accepted. Even if your parents and family say they are ok with races and religions and all your life you had friends that were from different backgrounds the moment you say you want to move on as an interracial couple your family may raise questions. Hence, before you move on as an interracial couple there few things you must be prepared for and few preventive measures you should take to avoid any future tensions.
Cultural Sensitivity
Before you move on in an interracial relationship it better you decide on terms that what count as cultural insensitivity in your perspective. When you and your partner need to stop whilst criticizing or joking about each other’s odd customs or anything related to culture or language.
Break the Silence
The worst thing interracial couples do is that they don’t talk about each other’s cultures, values, customs, and languages. They try to ignore each other’s feelings about their customs. Stop assuming and start talking. Let your partner know what you mind talking about your culture and ask him or her what he or she wants from you.
Before anything Trust
This is one of the most important steps in an interracial relationship. Because trust comes before anything in any type of relationship. If you trust your partner and you trust him or her enough that he or she will not do anything culturally insensitive intentionally you may able to avoid the situation and control consequences.
Interracial relationships are hard to handle but not impossible. Some may have bad endings and some may have happy endings. It mostly depends where you are and how open you are to that race. Moody Kim in her book ‘Forbidden Love’ narrates one such interracial romance story. Moody Kim is making a debut through a heart-melting novel. She has put together a real interracial romance between a young American guy and a gorgeous North Korean girl in this novel. Forbidden Love is a simple yet captivating love story of two individuals fighting for their right to love. The novel conveys great emotions like love, hate, optimism, and faith. Forbidden Love is true love which is beyond race, religion, caste, and culture. The ups and downs of this interracial relationship will be a lesson for other interracial couples of today. Moody Kim is trying to revive the true definition of love. As the word ‘love’ seems to lose its true meaning today. Forbidden Love is a must-read especially for interracial couples and anyone looking for something great to read about true love in its purest form.
About The Author
Grew up reading romantic novels, Moody Kim has made her debut with the most heart touching romantic novel she called “Forbidden Love”. As a woman of goals and aspiration Moody Kim always wanted to show her skills as a simple writer but as a storyteller that hooks the readers with her words and climax. She considers love to be a pure emotion that is above caste, religion, and race. But the word with time and technology seems to lose its meaning. Her personality is reflected through the character of the book. Through this novel, she shares an amazing interracial love story and longing for a forbidden love.
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