We have always heard people telling us that instead of finding out thebad bits, constructive points are pointed out. Talk of what you enjoy and admire most, not what you do not want, because the one you admire needs your consideration, not the one you despise. Reflect on the positive and forget the poor. The book, Go and See, indicates that we need to keep your life comfortable with good feelings and making you smile. When we continually talk of it and stress about it and hope that something does not happen, so when something finally does, that could be a concern for us.
The thing that we need to keep in mind is that the biggest failure that can ever exist on this planet is that you never try. If you do not try you do not lose. But if you do not try you do not win as well. So even if you fail in life always look at how many opportunities you tried to consume while failing. But if you quit then there are as many opportunities that you let go.
We need to think about what is good in you what qualities do have, what talents you bear. This will help you to develop self-confidence. Another most important thing is your words. Think before you speak. Your words can either lift up the day of someone and can also destroy it.When a person fears that he might fail, he works hard. The anxiety that what the outcome will be in the future affects today’s performance and might end up in loss. The pressure that no matter what they have to succeed, increases the stress level and they might not be able to handle the pressure which may end into failure. People think how it will be to fail and what will be the embarrassment of it. They think about what they have not gone through yet.
Unfortunately, if you fail in some aspect of your life you might end in depression because you have been taught that failure means the end. Fearing about something that you cannot predict and is out of control is useless. A lot of people have failed but are successful today. Because they used their failures as the building blocks to their success. If you talk about it failure is not something to be afraid of, try to learn from them, use them to innovate, and enhance yourself. One of the gravest mistakes of mankind is that they cherish victory and fear failure. They do not know that one of the most important keys to success is to be ready to get failed and seize every possible benefit of failure.
Author Bio:
Komla S. Agbenossi is a very dedicated, hardworking, and consistent man who was born into an average African family. He struggled a lot while working towards achieving his dreams and despite having multiple responsibilities he succeeded in achieving it. That is the exact same message that he has put forward in his book as well.
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