Life is unpredictable, it throws just about anything at you when you least expect it. There is no such thing as getting into a situation at a wrong time; life doesn’t follow any such boundaries. Whether you are up high in the sky or you still trying to get yourself up from the ground you can and will encounter worst possible situations. After getting beat up so bad, after giving all your energy and strength to survive just when you are about to give up you see the silver lining hidden behind the darkest cloud. The small things that you failed to notice because you were so busy counting the amount of agonies in your life suddenly becomes visible. That is when you realize that it was you who have been taking the life and the blessings it has for granted for a very long time.
We get hurled into issues and conditions we figure we would never need to stand up to and the timings of these circumstances are more stunning than the test. It seems like one thing happens legitimately after the other and there is no break to rest. One day our life is all adequate and smooth with some minor upsets and the uncommonly following day the world flips around.
There are two ways to go about every emotion that hits you in different situations; one is to embrace it and work your mind to enhance that feeling and the other way is to look the other away and find something that gives you exactly the opposite. Arguably, many of us overthink over something that might put us low and meanwhile we ignore the things that make our life worthwhile. Obstacles are a part of life and yes they will make you feel vulnerable, deprived and depressed at times but simultaneously you need to take a closer look around you and for sure if you look closely one can find many things that puts a smile on your face even when you think nothing can help you feel better.
These high points and low points that happen in our lives are the very things that assist us with acknowledging and value the life for what it is. Once in a while it very well may be extremely difficult to see the silver linings and regardless of whether we do it very well may be hard to comfort our spirits with their reality. In any case, where it counts every one of us realize that the small amounts and pieces are the ones that sway our life the most.
One needs to keep restrictive norms and a persuasive outlook in whatever we will intend to do. A person's most essential weapon for persistence is the cerebrum. Each master looks at the unclear force that each individual has and whether the individual uses their brain's capacity unbounded. Those individuals that did are sitting at the most raised motivation behind the mountain and helping other people to follow their strategies. The others are as of not long ago attempting to discover a leave plan by fixating on what will unfurl in the event that they don't. That is the most detectable and just capability between influential individuals and conventional individuals.
Lejla’s memoir “Beyond Borders” is a great book for those who are seeking guidance in their lives in their time of need. We all need help at some point and what could be better than knowing what to do from those who have had their fair share of experiencing similar situations?
Lejla Becirovic is a Bosnian refugee, currently living in the United States and working as a hospice social worker. Having experienced the troubles people face in war, she has dedicated her life to the wider society around her. She now aims to tend towards the needs of others, especially refugees. As a Social Worker, she is the recipient of two letters from the President of the United States commending her for her outstanding advocacy for disadvantaged populations.
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