We all have a built in feature of comparing everything with everything. Believe it or not we cannot really come up with a viable decision unless we have something to compare with. If we are to choose something with getting the advantage to weigh the pros and cons between two things or situations, we always feel at risk as if it will turn out to be our worst nightmare. Comparison is food for our though no matter what the situation is, whether it is deciding between what to eat to or a life depending situation, weighing our options is the only way that we can put ourselves at comfort about what we chose.
Whenever we get into situations that exhaust us mentally we look around for something to compare it with in order to come out of it as soon as possible with minimal effects. We talk to people who we suspect to have gone through something similar or we turn to people that we can trust for advises that might help us to relieve ourselves from the pain and stress that we endure. We have always heard that this is the very approach that we should take when going through a difficult situation but with time there have been some changes to the process.
As there is so much happening around us, no matter how similar our lives might seem to each other there is always something that is different yet significant. Looking up to someone with similar situation is still a good ideal but completely relying on the obtained suggestion would be something naïve to do. Getting an opinion from someone who is experienced can be fruitful as it can give you a new perspective to look over a certain situation or aspect. Even with all the suggestions and opinions you gather, it is necessary to keep in mind that your personality and situation can be impacted by even the most miniscule things that we might ignore. There will always be something going on in life and at various times you will find yourself lost and you will find people that will tell you what to do but it is you who needs to decide what direction to take.
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